Getting an autistic person’s attention isn’t always about raising your voice or calling their name. It’s about patience, respect, and using strategies that feel safe and supportive. Every autistic individual is unique, so what works for one may not work for another.
Ways to Gain Attention
Before asking for attention, remember that sensory differences play a big role. Some autistic people may be very focused on a task or overwhelmed by sound or movement. A calm, thoughtful approach helps.
Use Their Name First
Saying their name gently before giving instructions helps them know you’re talking directly to them.
Get on Their Level
Make eye contact optional. Instead, kneel or sit so you’re closer to their line of sight. This can feel less overwhelming.
Keep Language Simple
Use clear, short sentences. Avoid giving too many directions at once.
Try Visual or Gestural Cues
Some autistic people respond better to a visual signal, like showing a picture or pointing.
Give Processing Time
Don’t rush. After calling their name or giving a cue, pause and give them time to respond.
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FAQs
How do you call an autistic child’s name?
Use a calm voice, say their name first, and wait a few seconds before repeating.
Should I force eye contact?
No. Eye contact can feel uncomfortable. Focus on whether they are listening, not if they’re looking.
Why does my autistic child ignore me sometimes?
It may be sensory overload, deep focus on an activity, or they just need extra processing time.
Sources:
- https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7003152/
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/five-tips-helped-improve-my-childs-behavior
- https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/about-autism/autism-and-communication
- https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/autistic-child-interaction/
- https://iidc.indiana.edu/irca/articles/should-we-insist-on-eye-contact-with-people-who-have-autism-spectrum-disorders.html