How to Teach an Autistic Child to Share
Understanding Sharing Challenges in Autism
Children with autism may find sharing difficult because it involves complex social skills such as understanding others’ emotions, waiting for a turn, and coping with changes in routine. Some autistic children may also have strong preferences for specific toys or activities, making it harder to let go or take turns. Recognizing these challenges is the first step in creating effective teaching strategies.
Modeling and Visual Supports
Demonstrating sharing behavior helps children understand what it looks like in action. Parents and therapists can model taking turns with toys or snacks while using clear language, such as “Now it’s your turn.” Visual supports like turn-taking cards or timers can also make the process more concrete and predictable, helping reduce anxiety.
Positive Reinforcement and Practice
Reinforcement plays a key role in teaching sharing. When a child successfully takes turns or shares an item, offering praise, tokens, or preferred rewards can motivate repetition of that behavior. Regular short practice sessions during playtime encourage learning in a fun, low-pressure environment.
Conclusion
Teaching an autistic child to share takes patience, structure, and positive reinforcement. With consistent support and clear strategies, children can gradually learn to enjoy turn-taking and cooperative play, improving both social understanding and communication skills.
At Little Champs ABA, we help children in Colorado and Utah build essential social skills like sharing, cooperation, and communication through personalized, evidence-based ABA therapy. Our compassionate team works closely with families to make learning meaningful and fun—helping every child grow with confidence, one small success at a time.
FAQs
1. Why do autistic children struggle with sharing?
Because sharing requires understanding social cues and managing emotions, which may be challenging for children with autism.
2. How can parents encourage sharing at home?
Use visual aids, structured routines, and consistent praise during shared activities like games or playdates.
3. Can ABA therapy help teach sharing?
Yes. ABA therapy uses positive reinforcement and structured teaching to help children learn social and communication skills like sharing.
Sources:
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/what-autism
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/applied-behavior-analysis