How to Reduce Attention-Seeking Behavior in a Positive Way?
What Causes Attention-Seeking Behavior?
Attention-seeking behavior happens when a child uses actions—such as interrupting, yelling, or clinging—to gain social interaction. Research in behavior analysis shows that some children rely on these behaviors because they have learned that they reliably bring someone’s attention. Understanding this helps caregivers respond more effectively.
Positive Reinforcement for Appropriate Behavior
Positive reinforcement means giving attention or praise after a desirable behavior occurs. Studies show that reinforcing communication, independence, or calm behavior increases the chances that they will happen again. This can include verbal praise, a quick high-five, or engaging briefly in an activity your child enjoys. The key is to focus attention on the behaviors you want to encourage—not the behaviors you want to reduce.
Using Planned Ignoring Safely
Planned ignoring is a research-supported strategy where caregivers withhold attention during minor, non-harmful behaviors. This helps the child learn that these actions no longer produce the desired response. It must always be paired with reinforcement for appropriate alternatives, such as asking for attention in a clear and respectful way.
Conclusion
Reducing attention-seeking behaviors starts with understanding why they happen and teaching positive alternatives. By using strategies like positive reinforcement and planned ignoring, caregivers can help children communicate their needs more effectively and build healthier social skills.
At Little Champs ABA, we use evidence-based ABA strategies to help children across Colorado and Utah develop meaningful communication and reduce challenging behaviors in a supportive way. Our team creates personalized therapy plans that strengthen social skills, build confidence, and empower families with practical tools for everyday success. Let us help your child take positive steps forward—one small champ at a time.
FAQs
1. What is attention-seeking behavior?
It refers to actions used to gain social interaction or responses from others.
2. Does ignoring always work?
Planned ignoring works only for mild, non-dangerous behaviors and must be with positive reinforcement.
3. Can ABA therapy help reduce attention-seeking behavior?
ABA uses evidence-based strategies, including reinforcement and skill-building, to teach alternative communication.
4. Should I give attention right after good behavior?
Yes. Immediate reinforcement increases the likelihood that the positive behavior will continue.
5. Is attention-seeking always intentional?
Not always—some children seek attention because it’s the easiest way they know to communicate a need.
Sources:
- https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/health-wellness-and-safety-resources/helping-hands/behavior-support-using-planned-ignoring-at-home
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/applied-behavior-analysis